I've talked to women who have been with their man for years and have no idea why.  Their men come and go as they please without even thinking about spending time with them.  Then when we bring it up, men have a bitch fit.  Shouldn't this be a clear sign that your man is totally not in to you anymore?

I can remember growing up and watching the Martin Lawrence movie "You So Crazy".  The part that stands out the most is when Martin's girl said to him "Baby, I was thinking we could hang out and spend some quality time together".  She tells him the same thing for a week and Martin continuously said "Sorry, I was suppose to chill with Craig and them soooo I'll see ya when I see ya." and rolls out.  Then at the end of the week he comes to her and wants to spend time together because his homies are tired of hanging with him.  She is looking fly because she had the time to get her hair and nail done while he was hangin' with his homies all week.  By the end of the week she had found someone to fill his spot so she tells Martin "Sorry see ya when I see ya."

This is EXACTLY what happens when a woman starts feeling neglected.  Men don't understand how bad this hurts us.  It's very hard to grasp the idea that your man would rather spent time with his homies than you.  It hurts to feel like you're nothing to your man.

So what should you do?

My answer to that question is to do whatever makes you happy.  Don't worry about how he feels because its clear to see that he has already stop caring about the way you feel.  If you feel like you want to have a jump off or just get out of your current situation by all means DO IT!

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